LOVE is not sex, Love is not Physical attraction, Don't be deceived.
LOVE needs to be fed.
AGAPE LOVE + PHILIA LOVE + EROS LOVE = SUCCESSFUL AND BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP .
Agape Love could connote that Unreserved Commitment, mutual commitment.
Philia Love has to do with the kind of Love that proceeds out of fondness from friends , could be called shoulder to shoulder love.
Eros Love erupts from emotions, feelings. And can I tell you something, Feelings are fickle, emotions are not constant.
Any relationship built solely on Eros love only can't Thrive. It's like building a 10 Storey building on sand.
That's why for a lasting Relationship you need all the three in operation.
If a guy says he wants to court/date you, he should be a sound friend first. If all that draws him close is your frame or your face... That's a frail relationship worthy of short life .
You first be friends and have lots in common, that compatibility and shared values before anything else.
If he's attracted, what attracted him and how solid is that attraction.
Look sweetie , Nigeria is so blessed from the overflow of 'dwindling' Natural resources to the abundance of beautiful women.
That should tell you that there's always someone out there more beautiful, more light skinned than you.
If a guy tells me "Baby I see your beauty, it's like the beauty of the sun ..."
And I'm like "What a lovely poem , sun ke "
Cos he's obviously a big time joker.
Hey, am not trying to be too hard or Spartan...
It's all fine to compliment a lady... As in we all feel good about that but hey! guys you can't blow up every girl with such hyperbolic talks...
Truth be told friendships need maintenance.
I can say confidently that I am friendly ,love to meet new people and make friends but actually I don't know how to actually maintain most friendships.
Some Friendships could be costly to maintain, the question is which is worth the cost?
It's not all about making or having friends, it's about the level of importance we attach to those friendships that count.
*True Love can wait, ask Biblical Jacob (worked seven extra years for Rebecca)
*True Love takes time and grows gradually.
*True Love is attracted to the whole personality.
*True Love cultivates, trains and brings out the best in you.
Guys! You meet a lady and at the end of the month, you are dry and worst than before. You need to flee from her or send her fleeing.
Some ladies are liabilities rather than assets... They deteriorate who you are or what you have.
Most are Eat-meets (obiageli) rather than help meets .
We all got to be wise
#Be Single But not Silly#
