9 SIGNS YOUR MARRIAGE NEEDS A CHECK-UP

1. Frequent Accusation and Counter-accusation is one obvious sign.

2. Constant Fault -Finding.

3.Inappropriate Blame-shifting: Blame shifting can't solve any thing in your marriage. It would most expectedly dilute the happiness. 

4. Reporting to a third party : Disaster! Inviting Third party to settle your differences confirms one thing, it shows you both are immature couples... Baby husband /baby wife. 

5. Lack of Communication : The only time some married people open their mouths is when they want to yawn or cough or eat , after that they turn dumb. 
It's as terrible as terrible when the communication lines in your home is jarred.

6. Sleeping in separate rooms : Just like forming a "camp" in the house. We thought you were married, so if you do that, you informally signed a divorce by separating yourselves into rooms.

7. Keeping Diary of wrong doings : Taking note of mistakes, errors, wrong actions is one way to kill your happiness in marriage and one way to slowly kill yourself. It's just like grudge -stacking.
If you haven't known the Power of Forgiveness or been in the school of Forgiveness, you should put a hold on that marriage proposal as forgiveness is one recipe for a longer, healthy marriage.

8. Sexual Boycotts /strikes: You deny your husband sex? Kudos woman! You just giving him a ticket to play into the laps of the lady outdoor. It doesn't solve anything... You only help him help himself out there.

9. Angry Words : To worsen your marriage, say terrible things about your husband's family, and by dawn the next day, you will be evacuated. No delay!

These are a few major prominent signs... There are lots more you do that could kill that marriage faster...

Summary of all is ; To smother your marriage, just do the opposite of what you spouse appreciates or loves!!!
This isn't an advice, it's a warning.

I am Tired of seeing Sick marriages, marriages that need a doctor.  People are rushing in and out of their marriages like a banking hall.

Now watch that relationship closely , watch that date scrupulously, it's the first step to marriage, be discerning.
Wife beaters on rampage, Husband stabbers on rampage! Shine your eyes, use your heart.
What more can I say?

Work out your marriage... It is all in your power to make it beautiful or worse, it's all in your hands•